Dear non-duel, I agree with you. More than His own pain in the
last 2 years of His life, Bhagavan felt, experienced, and expressed more pain towards the sufferings of others. I have already mentioned on
the subject of contextual truth, that Bhagavan cried, when Echammal
brought her grandson, after everyone of her relatives had passed away
and placed the little child on Bhagavan's lap. Not only pain, even
other feelings of joy etc., have been expressed by Him, becuase,
others had felt happy at that material point of time. For example,
when "avial" (a mixed vegetable prepration in the form of a gravy)
and "kanji" ( a rice porridge) was to be served in the morning in the
Ashram, He rejoiced with every one else. All is Oneness, All is
Brahman, All is Self and Jnani is All. But, we mortals, enjoy happiness,
good luck and suffer pain and misery only for ourselves and not for
others, invariably.