Dear Ramana, Yes, but as part of "Enquiry", it does not matter whether we realise the truth or not. Bhagavan's word are the truth. It does not become false due to our experiential reality. Hence, we should pay no heed or interest in these matters while doing enquiry. All that there is, is outgoing mind, which needs made to be looked within.
And, Bhagavan has said at severa instances, that, this thought is the problem -
Even most of the people doing Self-inquiry will not be free this life.
even the idea that we will not care our parents is also just the fear of the outgoing mind. There are no such fears. Instead, Bhagavan says, just enquire, hold on to the 'I' nothing else.
and moreover, it does not mater really to us, whether people realise or not? does it? we should be meditating instead Life continues the same. The Prarabhda itself takes care of our life, one will take care of what needs to be taken care
by the force of our Prarabdha itself. Our free will extends to doing tapas in abidance as Self. We need to give up the doership of the feeling that I am taking care of my parents, I am taking care of my friends.
One will begin to take care of his parents, friends as not "others" but as Himself. You love them as they are yourself. You love yourself by loving them! There are no others, here.
Jesus has said, Love thy neighbor as Thyself, as Thy neighbor is Thyself.
Nothing else is as important as restricting the outgoing mind. It is all Maya...
Even to acknowledge, that there will be "others" till ego is completely annihilated is wrong because, you are able to say this only after the emergence of 'I' instead, it is best to focus on 'I' holding on it to the"I am" not even letting it out to acknowledge that others exist! such should be our "STEADFASTNESS"
Let "others" exist or not, what matters to us? we should remain focused on "I am" the Self with absolute faith and sincerity! Only this "I am" is... this should be our faith. This is the only reality
Salutations to Bhagavan