Dear Srkudai, Amiatal,
Due to discernment, we are able to recognise the reasons as in, we are able to see very clearly that we are all very much conditioned by our vasanas and wrong notions, however this does not end in just 'knowing' it. I mean to say that one is able to recognise this reality and one is able to become aware of these realities and recognition, but we are unable to put to practice this recognition continuesly, the knoweldge to undoing or unlearning is not continues and it is constanty intrerupted by various things we have built up over time or say over many births.
We have made our lives revolve around money, for it is only money that seems to give happiness, the world revolves around money. The talk of the day is globalization, Global Economy and GDP, Conversion rates, and what not? It is only through money we are able to give security to our loved ones, buy them their desired things, we are very much caught up in this moha
When we realise/recognise/discern that we have been carrying unnecessary liggage over our shoulders and when we want to drop the weight of luggage, then society and loved does not allow you to lessen your burden (just out of avidya) Then we begin to just carry over the heavy luggage just for the sake of our loves ones and due to the pressure of the societal norms. We don't want to drop our luggage for it contains precious items through which we are able to make our loved ones happy, secure, etc...

we dont want them to feel sad, let down!
And in reality it dawns that our recognition strongly is dependent on the recognition and discernment of our loved ones too! Which is the biggest problem! We are demanding the impossible!
As in we are desperate that our loved ones are also able to recognise this truth, what we seem to see and we wait, wait ad wait patiently and carry the unnecessary luggage on our shoulders for ages, for we seem to want our most loved ones to also realise this truth. Well its not wrong to want our loves ones also to recognise this truth but, we have to recognise that their recognition is absolutely not dependent on us. Due to Moha, we don't want our loved ones feel insecure and we keep working towards that more than what is basically necessary
instead of constantly LIVING the Recognition!
Recognition, Truth Dawning happens from within oneself. recgnising that Knowledge cannot be transferred but only shown and abiding in our own recognition constantly is the way.
We are holding on to our loved ones like "fevicol"

(yeh fevicol ka mazboot jod hai, tutega nahi)
It goes down to the level that, we know that giving Sugar to a person with diabities is bad, but due to too much love we make exemption and feed them with lots of sweets feeling so sorry for them. Like how too much chocolates is bad for children, we buy lots of chocolates for children just because of Moha, similarly, we are holding on to our loved ones so much with moha.
We have to make a Leap in our Sadhana. Let go of everything and remain.
Salutations to Bhagavan